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The voices of
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US and Canada Detransitioners

Abel - M2F2M
I wasn't the most masculine growing up

Alex - M2F2M
I was a little bit more weird. I didn't fit in with most kids

Alia - F2M2F
I was a tomboy. I had masculine energy.

Ash - F2M2F
TikTok made me think transitioning was the solution to struggles with depression. There were a million videos

Billy - M2F2M
Everyting I read told me that I had to transition.

Brian - M2F2M
My therapist didn’t unpack my drug use, internalized homophobia, or childhood trauma. She said I was a woman trapped in a man’s body,

Carol - F2M2F
As a “butch” woman (and not a big smiler) I was routinely treated with slight contempt

Elan - M2F2M
When I was young, I was bullied a lot, being very bright but physically weak as a super-nerd. I fantasised about being a girl from age six because that would make me safe and take me away from the bottom of the male hierarchy

Michelle - F2M2F
I was a tomboy. My friends were boys. Even at 3 I talked about being a boy.

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Jesse - F2M2F

Claire - F2M2F
While I was in therapy, I was never asked about my past, and if I was, I wouldn’t include how men treated me, because they were embarrassing, and to me, not important.

Kasey - F2M2F
I transitioned because I didn't want to be gay

Paul - M2F2M
It was much less threatening to my psyche to think that I was a straight girl born in the wrong body

Grace - F2M2F
I felt so detached from my body, and the way it was developing felt hostile to me.

Yarden - M2F2M
I just wanted friendship and love. I wish I had the knowledge that I have today but it's too late now. I'm royally screwed.

Arianna - F2M2F
I was a girl that dressed like a boy. I was dealing with a lot of anger and rage and hurt. I ended up in mental hospitals.

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UK and Europe Detransitioners

Calvin - M2F2M
I was a man that wore makeup. I had social media followers and they pressured me to trans.

Charlie - F2M2F
I was sold this idea that transitioning was magically going to solve problems.

Daniel - Czech
I was gentle. Bullies at school made me doubt my masculinity and sexual orientation.

Debbie - F2M2F
I was sexually abused for years. I was afraid of being raped. If I didn't have a vagina, I couldn't be raped.

Kobe - M2F2M
I felt unlovable as an effeminate man. Older trans people told me to play the 'suicide tactics' in order to be granted a transition.

Lucas - Poland
They should have helped me accept my body. Trans was an idea I got infected from the media. A older transwoman reached out on the internet and encouraged me to female pronouns. Then to paint my nails pink and dress as a girl.

Nelemil - F2M2F
I am lesbian. I struggled to identify as a woman... and then I came across the term transgender.

Oli - M2F2M
TikTok fueled my gender confusion. I can’t be another person. It's a fantasy. I just need to love myself.

Sinead - F2M2F
I can't believe I was allowed to do this.

Thain - F2M2F
I was a gender-nonconforming child. And then there was the fact I was attracted to girls… and I just didn't know anybody who was lesbian.

Sabteth - F2M2F
Even as a child, people thought I was a boy. I had boy energy and coudl not connect with girl talk. And then I was sexually attracted to women.

Mahri - M2F2M
I was bullied and I was insecure about myself. I developed a deep shame of being male. We push away the things that make us unique and become ashamed and insecure.

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Australia and New Zealand Detransitioners

Courtney - F2M2F
I was just hell bent on transition. Gender dysphoria is triggered by mental and physical illness. My endo didn't care. She just gave me hormones.

Jay - F2M2F
I am suing my psychiatrist for professional negligence. I should not have undergone hormone therapy or surgeries.

Jeremy - M2F2M
"It's really important. Get a real detailed history, a thorough exploration of your upbringing, just really investigate yourself.
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Lee - F2M2F
In Australia, there’s no such thing as a lesbian anymore. Erasure complete.

Mel - F2M2F
My life was a clusterf***. If you transition, everyon gives you so much love. I carry the scars, physical and mental, of the choices I now regret

Oliver - M2F2M
I want them to give out hormones less freely

Patrick - M2F2M
A lot can go wrong when you are misdiagnosed transgender

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